Many of us are terrified of speaking out when we know we should or we have real fears of facing a difficult boss or we are scared of spiders and other creepy crawlies. We all face fears of different things at different times and we must face those fears to be successful.
As Winston Churchill said: ‘Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak; courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen”
I have been Googling courage and reading stories about courage lately, including the wonderful book by Susan Jeffers: ‘Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway’ as I am about to embark on what for me will be a ‘face your fears’ experience. I am part of the crew of ‘Soulmate’. We leave at the end of May to sail to Tonga for 2 months. The yacht is certainly seaworthy and the captain (my husband) competent, but it will be the first time I have been so far off shore and for so long.
Friends say things like “Do you get sea sick?” The answer is yes. “Are you scared” The answer is yes. “Well why do it?” Now that answer is more complicated.
How many of us do our daily job mostly quite comfortably? Yet we all know that when we step outside the comfort zone and face a challenge, it is such an adrenalin rush it can keep us buzzing for a long time. As a result we grow.
So I am off to Tonga. I’m sure there will be moments that I will wonder what on earth I’m doing this for. I will keep in mind however, as Ambrose Redmoon said: “Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear”
I’m looking forward to being back.

